Thursday, November 29, 2007
The Flower Lady
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
First word.
Monday, November 26, 2007
Rain on the roof
It's been a rainy, misty day. Driving back from the dentist tonight in the dark was like driving through swirls of clouds in black velvet. When I got home I took a little glass of sherry into the porch and snuggled down into one of our new chairs in front of the fire and listened to the rain on the roof. A simple pleasure. Paul once told me that, because of the amount of insulation in the roof, we would not be able to hear the rain. He was WRONG (a rarity). It makes such a wonderful sound. Reminds me of that old song "You and me and the rain on the roof" (by the Lovin' Spoonful) from my dating days. If I remember right there were great sound effects of rain and thunder. We used to love those sound effects on records. I can remember albums that I would buy that would be nothing but one big thunderstorm. In college my friends and I would gather in one dorm room, turn out the lights and lie there listening to the thunderstorm. Having a significant other whose image you could conjure up while listening only increased the thrill of listening to recorded thunder.
I started a new book, "Black and Blue" by Anna Quindlen. So far it is really good. I can tell that it is going to be one of those books that I have to read while I am stirring pots on the stove because I CANNOT put it down. And now I'm off to bed to read.
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Smooth and bumpy.
On Saturday morning mother woke up not feeling very well, a bit dizzy. She did the right thing and hit the "Lifeline" bracelet that she has. Help came right away and she was taken to the hospital. She seems to have recovered quickly from whatever was ailing her. We went to visit her today and she looks wonderful, sort of like she was relaxing at an unusual type of spa. If she looks this good tomorrow she will be going home.
I was talking with her on the phone last night and as soon as I hung up the phone rang. It was the daughter of one of mother's long time friends to tell me that her mother had just suffered a ruptured cerebral aneurysm and was not expected to live. Although she was unable to respond they believed that she was still able to hear and she was calling to ask if mother could call and say a few words to her. Mother did call. I know it meant a lot to the family to know that she cared so much. My thoughts are with them at this very difficult time.
Just as I was gettiing ready to sign off my computer last night an email popped up from Liz telling me that her little Chloe had been taken to the Children's Hospital with an attack of appendicitis. The perpetrator was removed from her little body today and she is doing just fine. Ironically, the Children's Hospital is right next to the hospital where mother is. If their rooms were in the proper position they could wave to each other from their beds! We like to keep our famly close!
Today was a lovely day, weather-wise. When we came back from the hospital I managed to get leaves raked and put on my gardens but I "have miles to go before I sleep". I hope I can get the rest done before winter really sets in. The signs don't look too good. Tomorrow we are getting freezing rain and sleet.
It was a rather bumpy end to our holiday weekend but things seem to be smoothing out nicely tonight. And all my children are safely home from their holiday travels so I can sleep well.
Saturday, November 24, 2007
What kind of Black Friday person are you?
While this shoving match was going on I was cozily curled up in my warm bed snoring away (yes, I sometimes snore). While shoppers yesterday were walking shoulder to shoulder through the mall, rubbing their aching backs as they stood in line, dodging the coughers and sneezers and hackers and listening to the same annoying Christmas songs over and over I was in my quiet home, listening to the wind roar outside as I cleaned and read and made lentil soup which we ate by the fire.
What is your preference for Black Friday, the pulsating mall or a quiet home?
Thursday, November 22, 2007
So much to be thankful for.
Last year we hosted Thanksgiving and had 19 guests including two of my children. Liz hosted the day today. It was much smaller with only 10 guests and none of my children. Despite wishing my children could have joined us we had a wonderful day. Liz cooked a superb meal, as always. And I must say, it was rather nice to be able to sleep late this morning and not have to get up early to chuck a big turkey in the oven. Besides enjoying the bounty of good food, it is always good to sit around the table with your family and enjoy fun and interesting conversation and share some really good belly laughs. I enjoy that part of Thanksgiving even more than the food. After dinner mother got that funny "auntie mary" look on her face and told us that she had an announcement to make. She always makes us play "Twenty Questions" with things like this. We also get very nervous when she does this. We peppered her with rapid-fire questions which finally led to the fact that it was actually Henry who the "announcement" was about.
So we started peppering Henry with a barrage of obnoxious questions. He was suddenly struck with that funny "auntie mary" look as we all questioned him en masse.
As you can tell by the look on Henry's face when we finally guessed, it was a rather happy announcement. But sorry, I'm going to leave you hanging! I don't know if it wants it "publicized" on the web yet so I'm not saying anything about it here. If you want to know, you'll just have to email me!
Some people let the turkey tryptophan take over and collapsed for an old-fashioned nap.
I hope everyone enjoyed their day as much as we did. And now I'm going to end it with a UCONN basketball game. How good can this day get?!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO YOU ALL!!!!
Monday, November 19, 2007
Breaking away
Fast forward to today. Damon calls tonight after flying from Germany to Seattle for the holidays. While he is talking to me I have a little bit of deja vu. He tells me he is having a good,(well...GREAT) time in Germany. I can only assume what he says is true because his speech is peppered with German phrases after only spending a week there. He has probably learned more German in one week than all the Spanish he tried to learn in a year in high school. I don't always understand what he is saying. I do understand that there are lots of blond, blue-eyed young women in Germany and they love to help the young American boys with their English. Paul IM's him tonight to tell him that he is downloading a program in my computer. The last thing Paul says to Damon is: "Ought to be a little faster for her now". Damon's answer: "Jah".
Ah Damon. You so immerse yourself in a culture. You must have stepped right out of that movie!
Sunday, November 18, 2007
Twins Sunday
Not far behind were Megan and little Elliot. They are both oh so cute but oh so very different. They are "twins" in name only. Albion is so much like his father. A mass of quivering muscle, he wants to be on the go all the time. He's already cultivating a sense of humor. His binky is his most precious possession. Whenever you look at him he smiles.
Whenever you look at Elliot he senses stranger-danger. He gives you fair warning with a little down-turned lip and then lets out a wail. Like his mother, he is sweet and patient and has an endearing smile that lights up his huge blue eyes.
While she was feeding the twins, great-grandma was in the kitchen giving Paul lessons on how to cook hot dogs.
It was such fun having two little ones to play with. Babies are such fascinating little munchkins, aren't they? All too soon it was nap time, which translates into "let"s get the twins in the car and get moving on home".
Elliot, on the other hand, did that lip-trembling crying thing everytime I looked at him!
Brett and Megan should be very proud of the way they are bringing up these little guys. They are doing a great job.
Friday, November 16, 2007
Snoozing on a Friday night
When I got home today Paul had already lit a little fire in the gas stove for me. Or was it for him?? I started dinner and when I went back to the porch to set the table this is what I found.............................................
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Cold cows and cozy cats
The weather warmed up to almost 60 today but by afternoon the sky turned gray, the winds picked up and things started to smell like rain. The cats scooted in the door at dinner time and promptly curled up on the sofa in front of the fire. They looked so warm and content and peaceful that for a moment I almost wished I were a cat!
As I was flipping channels tonight I came across Ken Burns' "War". It was the last installment and was so good that I wished I could have watched the whole thing but it doesn't end until after midnight and I can't do a late night in the middle of the week.
We saw a brief glimpse of a little boy watching a news reel in the movie theatre during World War II. Paul said, "Do you remember watching those at the movies?" I had almost forgotten about that. Do any of you remember the news reels they used to have before the movie started? And watching news reels in school? We used to all troop down to the cafeteria to watch the black and white news reel. Each showing would start with a count down from 10 - 1 and we all would have to count the numbers out loud, en masse. Our teachers always made us take notes. We would try to scribble as legibly as we could in the dark and then we would be quizzed when we got back to our rooms. I loved to watch those news reels but I was always frustrated by the fact that I had to take notes and couldn't simply sit back and watch what was happening on the screen.
Did the same man narrate them for all those years? It seems like the voice never changed.
Monday, November 12, 2007
Two Days..........Two Special People
A happy Veteran's Day to one of my very favorite veterans, my mom, Lieutenant Margaret Chapin. She entered the Army early in 1945 as a nurse. She first went to Fort Devins and was then transferred to Camp Edwards in Mass. Because she was prone to hay fever the army doctor told her that if she wheezed at times she would not have to go over-seas and THEN asked her if she wheezed. He was making it easy for her to get out of overseas duty but she couldn't tell a lie so was subject to an overseas call. She ultimately ended up in the psychiatric section at Cushing General Hospital in Framingham, Mass. (as a nurse, not a patient) There was no better person to raise the morale of those men suffering from the trauma of war. She has a picture of her on the lawn of the hospital surrounded by a group of smiling men in their army pj's and robes. I'm sure they never forgot that nurse with the big heart and even bigger smile who made them forget what they had just been through. She is listed in the Women In Service To America Memorial in Washington, DC; a very fitting tribute.
Today is also the birthday of my sister Lauri, my very first friend. It's hard to believe that we have been together for 60 years! Sixty years of happy shared memories. A Scorpio is listed as being loyal, generous, supportive, protective and humble. She is all that. When I read the negative traits of Scorpio she was NONE of them. I can't imagine growing up without her. Whatever I did and wherever I went, she was always there. She was my other half. Happy Birthday to my quirky little sister who had a color for every day of the week!Sunday, November 11, 2007
Sunday chores
Late this afternoon, after we had both finished with our chores, we decided to take a drive to Home Depot to look for lamps for the porch. Paul's idea was to go to the Connecticut Lighting Center. I checked out their prices on-line. Table lamps started at $250 and kept on going up to over $700. Yikes. With that plus the two floor lamps we needed we could easily spend over $1000 just for something to light up the porch. I don't think so.
Not really thrilled with what we saw at Home Depot we got back into the car and drove down the road to Target. There we found just what we were looking for.
Damon is safely bedded down in Germany tonight and seems to be enjoying his stay so far. Tomorrow he will go to work. Today he did a little exploring and got a little lost but his built-in GPS got him back on track. He says that Nuremberg is a fascinating city, especially from a historical perspective.
Tomorrow I have an appointment to get my temporary tooth implant with the permanent one coming two weeks later. I am SO ready to get rid of this horrid flipper.
Saturday, November 10, 2007
Lazy Saturday
Today I filled the bird feeders and hung them outside. I took off the screen doors and put on the storm doors. Just a few more signs that winter is coming. I'm hoping that it will be a bit warmer on Monday so that I can finish that darn yard work.
Damon is on his way to Germany. He left at 9am (Seattle time) and will get there tomorrow morning at 6am (our time). A very long trip, but I know he is planning on spending lots of sleep time on the plane. He'll be there for a week, fly back to spend Thanksgiving in Seattle, and then fly back again for 2 and a half weeks. That's a lot of back and forth. I hope he isn't bothered by jet lag.
Right now I feel like I'm jet-lagging so I'm going to bed and snuggle with a good book. I just started reading "Drowning Ruth". So far it is a great read.
Thursday, November 08, 2007
Winter marches ever closer
I think Cathy's Cafe is sadly closed for the season. We did spend a lunch half-hour out there last week because nurse Cathy, the "owner" of the cafe, called us all before lunch to tell us that if was "quite nice" out. I think the "quite nice" was the brief moment when the sun coming out and sticking her head out the door to check the weather conditions happened to coincide. By the time we got out there the sun had disappeared and there was a pretty brisk breeze. We were a rather pathetic sight to anyone driving into the school, hunched over and shivering as we tried to eat and keep our napkins from blowing away at the same time. For the very brief intervals that the sun would come out we would throw back our heads and shout "ooooohhh aaaahhhhh the sun". As much as we wanted to enjoy the fresh air and time away from childish voices it was all too much and we had to scamper back inside and end our lunch respite early.
Tonight it was homemade soup by the fire. After dinner the couch in front of the warm, dancing fire was irresistible. I lay down for a second and the next thing I knew I was snoozing. One of life's sweet pleasures.
Looking forward to a nice three-day weekend. I am so ready.
Tuesday, November 06, 2007
November.......already!
Thanksgiving play at Lee Kellog school in the '50's. That's me, the little pilgrim, 5th from the left, standing next to little Joey Solgovic. I was not tall, trust me. Joey was VERY short. And we still have a connection. He's now the sanitation man in Torrington and picks up our sanitary garbage. I remember this play because my skirt fell off in the middle of it and I had to walk to the front of the stage so a teacher could do damage control with a safety pin.Wow. October seemed to fly by as fast as the skittering leaves. Now gray November is here. When I flip my calendar and see the November page I think of:
- Gray gray gray skies. I love the gray. It has a cozy feel and makes you want to stay inside and make chili (well, I used to but, oh dear, it's too full of cholesterol now) and apple crisp and apple sauce and ginger cookies.
- The promise of snow. How I love a dark, windy day with the gray clouds spitting snow.
- Drawing turkeys in grade school with our handprint....the fingers being the feathers.
- The Pilgrims arrival in Plymouth. There is something about the wind moaning through the naked trees in the woods that makes me feel like a time traveler. I almost expect to see the natives peeking out from behind the trees.
- Thanksgiving, of course. White tablecloths, good china, candles on the table, fire in the fireplace,family, the smell of dinner cooking, fogged-up kitchen windows, the chatter and laughter of several different conversations, feeling good.
- Elections. Paul never votes. I always do.
- The first basketball game of the season..........oh YES!
- Lauri's birthday.
- Putting the bird feeders out, usually in the cold and windy weather.
- Putting on turtlenecks and sweaters and feeling oh-so-warm.
- Freezing at football games in college.
- Watching my kids play soccer in the snow, trying to stay warm wrapped up in a sleeping bag with a thermos of soup and another of cocoa and obsessing about running to the car and turning on the heater at the end of the game.
- Christmas music. I_CAN'T_STAND Christmas music, or ads or anything else Christmasy, before Thanksgiving.
- Cold, cold rain.
- Taking the bus/train home from West Virginia for Thanksgiving and being held by my Paul after being apart for 3 months. That was the BEST.
What do you think of when you think of November?
Sunday, November 04, 2007
Lots'a leaves
When I was little I loved leaves, probably because I didn't have to rake them. Leaves were something to play in. We would rake a big pile of leaves and jump into them, making that wonderful crackling sound, right off of the swing. Sometimes we would bury each other in leaves. Other times I would use the leaves to make a floor plan of a house and then spend hours in my little imaginative world, living the life of a princess in a castle or Mary in Little House in the Big Woods. When I was little, leaves were good.
Every fall my father would bank the house with leaves. He would rake them against the foundation of the house and lay boards over them to keep them from blowing away. He said it kept the drafts out of our old, drafty house. Once the house was banked he was through raking leaves for the year. He said it was better for the lawn to leave the leaves there. Now that I am older and hate to rake leaves I think maybe he said that to justify not raking leaves. After all the years of leaving the leaves unraked our lawn was still thin and sick looking.

When the kids were small I faithfully raked the leaves every fall because they loved jumping in the leaves as much as I used to. If I raked them up against the stone wall they could do a leap off the wall and into the pile. Great fun. When they were finished I would put the leaves on my flower beds for winter protection and my vegetable garden for food. Then I would take a couple of aspirin and go soak my aching muscles.
Several years ago we bought a lawn mower with a mulcher. It was great. No more leave raking. A few passes over the leaf-strewn lawn with my mower and the leaves disappeared like magic. It was a dusty, noisy job but so much easier and faster than the endless raking and lugging. There was a downside. I have noticed that the soil in my vegetable garden has been getting more and more anemic looking. It's looking quite hungry. I think it needs some nutritious leaves. So this year it was back to the raking and lugging and blisters. I have filled the garden with leaves. I hope it's happy.
I'm wondering if I transferred some earthworms into my vegetable garden if that would improve the soil or would the worms expire in the poorer soil? We have plenty of earthworms in some of the better soil areas of our property that I could move. Does anyone know if this has ever been tried? And does it work? How long does it take?
Friday, November 02, 2007
Living like a princess
Well, today our new furniture came for our Belly-Acres room. Conveniently,at the same time our carpet arrived two weeks early. After school I went to work. I vacuumed, shoved furniture about, moved old furniture out, unrolled the carpet pad and carpet. When I was through I felt like the Little Princess.
Paul has already claimed his favorite spot. I knew that's where he would land.
